9 Small Things to Be Thankful For

With Thanksgiving around the corner, we’re all thinking about what we’re thankful for. We often think about the big things like loved ones, good health, and good fortune, but what about the small things in life that we casually forget about? We asked people to tell us about the small things they are thankful for any day of the week. 

 1) Finding Money in Your Pocket

Don't you just love putting your hand into your pocket and finding some extra cash? It's like finding buried treasure. Now you have a little something extra to brighten up your day. Be sure to treat yourself well to some lunch. 

2) A Good Night’s Rest 

Who are you kidding? Don't you just love that magical feeling of waking up and feeling so refreshed like you're on a cloud? Be thankful that you feel so well rested. Good sleep is hard to come by these days.  

3) The Barista Who Memorized Your Order 

No one in the morning understands you like the barista. You can always count on that coffee with two sugars and skim milk. Also let's be honest, that coffee gets you through your day. Where would you be without him?

4) GPS Navigation

Instead of driving in circles all day or asking some random stranger, you can drive to where you need to go without looking clueless. Not only has it you saved time, but also it has saved you from getting lost and being in the middle of nowhere.

5) Good Hair Days

Having a good hair day just makes your day that much better. It's almost as if you're a movie star. Your great hair makes you feel more attractive and more confident. Admit it. 

6) Being Able to Google Anything

Have a question? Chances are that Google has the answer. You can search anything on the Internet these days even those questions you don't want to be judged for. The options are endless

7) Making the Train Right Before It Closes

We've all had that rush of adrenaline where we've ran to the train platform and caught the train with a second to spare. We're just too fast for it. 

8) A Good Book

There's something about not being able to put down a good book that is just so rewarding. It's like you are part of another universe. 

9) The Opportunity to Embrace Your Inner Child  

There's just something so refreshing and fun about embracing your inner childish side. It's not shown that often to most people, but when it is, it's just the best feeling. 

Life is so short. So you should take the time to be thankful for the little things in life. At the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn, we are thankful for all of our wonderful clients and their loyalty for the past 18 years. We want to wish you and your loved ones a Happy Thanksgiving! To hear more about our services, please call us at (718) 333-2394 or visit our website, BrooklynTrustandWill.com 

7 Of The Weirdest — But Very Real — Wills Of All Time

Wills are serious business. They are supposed to spell out how one would like their assets distributed after their death. But in some cases they also are used to send messages — or settle scores — from beyond the grave.

From besotted husbands to the paranormal... here are some of the most unusual wills — or last wishes — we’ve ever come across.

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10 Things to Look for in a Nanny

Trusting someone to take care of your prized possessions can be a challenge especially if this
someone will be watching your children. You want a nanny who is experienced, trustworthy, and
dependable. You also want this nanny to keep your children out of harm's way. If you're looking for a nanny, you should look for the following qualities:

1. Excellent Referrals

When you're looking for a nanny, it's extremely important to ask friends, family, and coworkers for past nannies they would highly recommend. Think of yourself as the job recruiter. You want to find the best possible person to care of your child.

2. Willingness to Bond with Your Family

If you're looking for a nanny, you most likely need him or her to spend a good amount of time with your child. Your child may rely on this individual for comfort or guidance. Although no bond is instant, it's good to see the connection between your nanny and the rest of the family. You could do this by seeing how your new potential nanny interacts with your children during the interview process. It's also important to pinpoint a nanny whose values and beliefs match yours.

3. Establishes Routine and Boundaries

Children need routine and boundaries. Routine involves children being on a consistent schedule such as when they do homework, play, or eat. This will allow your children to grow in the best possible way. It is also important to have a nanny who sets boundaries. This includes making sure the children are disciplined and that their privacy is protected.

4. Responsible

Without a responsible nanny, what's the point of even having one? A nanny's main goal is to care for your child and to be there. This includes things such as picking up your child, knowing your child's allergies, stopping your child from engaging in risky behavior, and being reliable.

5. Creative

All children get bored easily and they have so much energy. To keep your children entertained, a good nanny must be able to think outside the box. They should always be seeking new ideas and games for your child to engage in. Without a creative nanny, your children might end up watching TV or playing online games all day.

6. A Follower of Your Rules

A nanny who lets your kids eat junk food all day or leave a giant mess in your kitchen is not someone you would want to hire. It's important to find a nanny who listens and follows your rules. If your nanny fails to do so, your children will take your rules less seriously and walk all over your nanny. Also make sure your nanny is able to handle authority with your kids.

7. First Aid Experience

Let's face it. Children are prone to getting little cuts here and there, so it's important for your nanny to know first aid. If you don't want to compromise your child's health, it's essential that your nanny knows how to clean cuts and scrapes, perform CPR, and perform the Heimlich maneuver. You never know when these skills will come in handy.

8. Patient and Kind

Your children can be a handful, but the way nannies deal with it is important. You want your nanny to offer your children a helping hand and you want him or her to treat your child with respect.

9. Adaptable

Your children's growing needs are always changing. One day they love chicken, the next day they hate it. Your nanny should be able to accept the changes between their household and yours. He or she should also be able to follow your usual pattern or routine.

10. Likes Children

If your nanny doesn't like children, then what's the point of hiring him or her? Your nanny should have a passion for children. A nanny who likes children will actually take the time to know your children and understand them. It should be more than just a job to them.

Life is so short. So why wait settle on anything like a nanny? If you want to make the most out of life, you need to take control and give everything your all. At the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn, we do just that. We want to help you and your family have a lively and protected life. For more information call us at (718) 333-2394 or visit our website, BrooklynTrustandWill.com

What Does My WIll Do?

Creating a will isn’t the most enjoyable task – we know. But it is an important legal document that declares who will receive and manage your estate after you pass away.

Your estate consists of anything from things as large as real estate or personal vehicles, down to photographs and family heirlooms.

In addition to your estate, if you have kids, you could assign them a legal guardian in your absence.

If you have any further questions concerning the drafting of your will, please don’t hesitate, contact the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn.

Call us now at (718) 333-2394 or visit our website, http://BrooklynTrustandWill.com

15 Things to Do Before You Die

We all have our own bucket list of things to do during our lifetime from traveling the world to conquering a small fear. We asked people to tell us what they think someone should do before they die.

1. Learn a Foreign Language

A foreign language can help you explore a culture and meet new people. You may find yourself developing life-long friendships you never even imagined. And hey, it always helps to know a new language. You'll never know when you might need it.

2. Sleep Under the Stars

Sleeping under the stars is the best way to feel closer to nature especially if you're trying to get away from the city lights. It can help you reevaluate your life and get away from the stressors in your life.

3. Watch All Those Movies Everyone Keeps Talking About

Are you sick of people referring to or asking about a movie you just haven't made time to see? Sit down with your bucket of popcorn and start watching those flicks. Sometimes it's just nice to be in the loop of things.

4. Go Sky Diving

Who doesn't like an adrenaline rush once in a while? Sky diving among other extreme sports will add some spark and thrill you didn't think was possible.

5. See the Northern Lights

The Northern Lights are one of nature's beauties. The view can be quite spiritually uplifting for those who see these rainbow colored lights. Take the time to refresh yourself with such a sight.

6. Learn an Instrument

Learning an instrument is like learning a language. The more you practice it, the better you become. Pick up an instrument that speaks to you. For all you know, you could be the next Mozart.

7. Dive the Great Barrier Reef

Getting to see underwater life that up close is a memorable experience. Not only will you get a great view, but also you'll get to share in something special as if you are part of a secret world.

8. Conquer a Fear

Why live in fear? Even if you are afraid of rollercoasters, strive to ride one anyway. Embracing your fears can be quite liberating.

9. Float in the Dead Sea

The Dead Sea's high salt concentration is known for allowing people to float in its waters easily. You can practically sit and unwind in the water. It's a relaxing experience you can't get anywhere else in the world.

10. Go on A Hot Air Balloon Ride

The motions of the hot air balloon can be quite peaceful and soothing. Be sure to take lots of pictures because the view from a hot air balloon is spectacular.

11. Visit All Seven Continents

Get a taste for diverse cultures by travelling the seven continents. Not only will you get to experience a whole new world, but also you'll get to grow as a person too!

12. Write a Book

We all have stories we want to share or pass down, but how do make sure these stories are remembered forever. Your stories are worth finding. Write down your stories for others to read for generations to follow.

13. Climb a Mountain

Look at that view. Not many people get to appreciate such a sight. Experience the magic behind why they call to people and the journey behind climbing nature's beauty.

14. Disconnect for a Week

When was the last time you went more than a day without your phone, computer, or the Internet? Breaking away from such distractions can help you rediscover yourself.

15. Follow a Dream

A dream will only stay a dream if you let it. Take charge and follow a dream. You never know where it might take you.

Life is short. So why wait on any of these goals? If you want to make the most out of life, you need to take control and also prepare for the unexpected. At the Law Office of Inna Fershteyn, we do just that. We want to help you and your family have a lively and protected life.

For more information call us at (718) 333-2394 or

visit our website, BrooklynTrustandWill.com